Is It Normal To Be So Nervous?
OF COURSE!!!!!! You are not alone, it is completely normal to be nervous before a boudoir session. Even reaching out is nervewracking. Honestly, I was nervous for my first boudoir shoot. And this is my job! It’s completely common for women to feel some anxiety before their session. You’re about to go through a vulnerable experience, where you're showing up both physically and emotionally, and that can leave even the most confident babes feeling nervous AF. And if it’s your first time? I totally get it. I really do, I promise.
But, I promise, I’ve got you covered. From the gorgeous hair on your head to your flawlessly pointed toes. I will be here to guide you through it all. Whether it’s a lingerie hiccup, settling your hair, or giving you the perfect wedgie ;) I will be here! Helping with everything. Your posing, breathing, outfits, facial expressions, all of it. You can trust me!
If you feel the pressure to be, “perfect” I’ll stop you right there. Perfection doesn’t exist. You do not need to look like the overly photoshopped supermodels on Instagram. Those photos aren’t real. What is real, is authentic women, like yourself. Celebrating who you are in this moment, exactly as you are. That’s all that matters.
Soooo, how do we manage this anxiety? One of the most important things is communication. Just tell me how you feel! I promise, I have been there. Share how you’re feeling, and we can work through it together. We will go steady, at your pace, making sure to work through any traumas or blocks. But always remember, nerves are normal, but they do not need to stop you. Get pumped about stepping out of your comfort zone and doing something for you - you deserve it!